Do Taylor Swift and Rihanna have the same taste in men? Maybe not, but they at least want their men to do the same things…

T-Swizzle recently told Harper’s Bazaar what she looks for in a guy: When a man fails to take the reins, she tends to lose interest.

“It needs to be equal…if I feel too much like I’m wearing the pants, I start to feel uncomfortable and then we break up.”

She added: “Relationships are the ultimate collaboration but it’s wonderful to hand over the reins to your boyfriend when you control so much of these big, high-pressure decisions, you know?”

Rihanna told GQ a very similar tale:

“I like to feel like a woman. I have to be in control in every other aspect of my life, so I feel like in a relationship, like I wanted to be able to take a step back and have somebody else take the lead.” [Celebuzz.com]